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Gentle Parenting: Not the Same as Permissive Parenting
When people hear the term gentle parenting, they sometimes assume it means letting children do whatever they want or being overly lenient. However, gentle parenting is far from permissive parenting. Instead, it is a compassionate and respectful approach that emphasizes empathy, understanding, and guidance. Unlike permissive parenting, which lacks boundaries and often leads to a lack of structure, gentle parenting is about setting clear, consistent boundaries while maintaining a warm, nurturing environment.
The Three Types of Stress and Why They Matter
Stress shows up in all families, but not all stress affects children in the same way. In this post, we talk about the three types of stress, how each one impacts your child’s nervous system, and why understanding the difference matters. Rooted in neuroscience and compassion, this is gentle guidance for supporting resilience and emotional safety through everyday challenges.
Why Kids Hit, Yell, and Throw Things (And How to Help)
Big behaviours like hitting, yelling, or throwing things can feel overwhelming and confusing for parents. In this post, we talk about why these behaviours happen, what they’re really communicating, and how understanding your child’s nervous system can shift how you respond. Rooted in neuroscience and compassion, this is gentle guidance for meeting hard moments with more clarity and connection.
How Your Childhood Shows Up in Your Parenting (and what you can do about it)
Our own childhood experiences shape how we show up as parents, often in ways we don’t even realise. In this post, we talk about how past patterns can surface in parenting, why this happens, and how awareness can open the door to more choice and connection. Rooted in neuroscience and compassion, this is gentle guidance for understanding yourself with curiosity instead of blame.
Attachment isn't Perfect - It's Attuned
Attachment is one of the most talked-about concepts in parenting, and it’s also one of the most misunderstood. In this post, we talk about what attachment really means, how it forms over time, and why your relationship with your child matters more than getting things “right.” Rooted in neuroscience and compassion, this is gentle guidance for understanding connection and supporting emotional safety in everyday moments.
The Importance of Repair: Strengthening Connections with Your Child
Repair is one of the most important parts of connected parenting, and it’s something a lot of us weren’t taught growing up. In this post, we talk about why repair after conflict matters, how it helps rebuild trust with your child, and what repair can actually look like in real, everyday moments. Rooted in neuroscience and compassion, this is gentle guidance for finding your way back to connection after things feel hard or messy.